I’m writing to women, here. Stand in all your fullness, with your highs, lows, torn pieces and stunning bits. Stand exactly where you are as you are. Be a skunk. Skunks do not, with their chokingly effective radiating stink, attract many. But a skunk will find its skunk.
Be so skunkily you that you waste no time luring, alluring, securing or enduring the wrong partner. Choose yourself. Recognize yourself. When a potential partner comes along, be who you are and say what you need. If they don’t choose to stay, they are an ocelot or a bobwhite. Wouldn’t have done you good anyway.
Being authentically you will repel many, but to a kindred spirit that genuine stink will be perfume. Love is above all genuine: the world can’t wait any longer for you to thaw your inner worth.
Thanks to You Tube for the Pepe video, Wikipedia for the Pepe quotes and to Dreamstime for the icicle photo.
A person who helps a more skilled person
Synonyms adjunct, adjutant, aid, aide, apprentice, assistant, coadjutor, deputy, helpmate, helpmeet, lieutenant, mate, sidekick